So what if all the Millennials in your industry will be wearing minis or less to holiday parties this season. You’re smart. You’re successful — and heaven knows you’re experienced — so play that up. Wear a look that flatters your coloring and figure and makes you feel really attractive.
Although a classy evening outfit should be dressier than your daywear to capture the holiday spirit, it shouldn't be so out of character that you appear to be in costume.
Party or not, you still want to look professional. Over-the-top outfits tend to make you look silly. But there are plenty of on-trend possibilities as well as timeless favorite secrets that are right for almost any event. One will certainly suit your style, the occasion and your needs.
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8 Simple Rules to Rock Your Holiday Party
Here are some good guidelines for any event. See the accompanying slideshow for more specific ideas.
- Don't wear just any old thing. Like that dress that you've been wearing to evening events for the past 20 years. Be a classic-style icon for younger co-workers by selecting your outfit with care. If you love your simple black sheath that has got you through many a dressy occasion but crave an update, try wearing it differently. Top it with a sparkly cardigan or tuxedo jacket. Add a conversation-stopping necklace or pair of chandelier earrings — or a floaty, fabulous scarf and a colored shoe with lacy hosiery.
- Keep your cleavage to yourself. Work events are definitely not the place to flash the flesh, so nix anything low-cut, strapless or very short. And unless your arms are toned, wear sleeves. Your co-workers see you every day. Don’t surprise them with a side of you better left covered.
- Perfect your legs with hosiery. Leave bare legs to the kids (especially in winter). This season, hosiery, from lacy to opaque, is on every best-dressed list. If you like a bare look, select ultra sheers, like Donna Karan’s The Nudes or Hanes' Absolutely Ultra Sheers — and match the color to your skin tone.
- Wear proper undergarments. Choose a bra with a smooth finish under silky garments, a racer-back bra if your straps could slip out from a sleeveless top, and a flesh-colored slip or camisole under a filmy skirt or top. Body shapers are a godsend under sheaths and body-contoured designs, as are control-top pantyhose. Look for gentle shaping. You don't want to wear anything so tight that it inhibits your movements.
- Slip into sexy shoes. Here's where it is appropriate to show a little skin. Shoes with a low vamp (where the front of the shoe just reaches the toes, rather than covering the top of the instep) elongate your legs, so you don’t have to wear very high heels to get an alluring look.
- Smell good. Mist yourself with a lightweight floral or woodsy scent. It will put you in a great mood to further enjoy your evening.
- Keep makeup light and lips bright. Too much makeup makes us look older, as do dark lips. That said, you can get away with a little more at night. Select a foundation one shade lighter than your skin, then apply black liner close to the upper lash line and along inner lower lashes for more drama. Use a curler on your lashes — it opens up your eyes — and finish with several coats of mascara. A hint of blush then a bright mouth are all you need to shine.
- Balance a dressy outfit with a simple hairstyle. Avoid anything elaborate, teased or pouffed. Stick with a more natural look that has an imperfect edge, almost like you did it yourself, even if you had it professionally blown out.
Style consultant Susan Sommers is founder of Dresszing, a company that helps people harness the power of their visual presentation, including wardrobe, to feel more confident and be more successful. She is the author of two best-sellers, French Chic and Italian Chic.