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Has Your Network Aged Out and Abandoned You?

Career advice on what to do when it happens to you

By Marc Miller

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In my work running Career Pivot, a career design firm for people in the second half of life who want a change, I am hearing over and over again about how people’s networks have aged out.

One of the members of the new Career Pivot community told me that new positions always came to her. She never needed to look because her mentors and other leaders were always looking out for her. What has happened to her in her 60s is her network has aged out. The people who had her back for so many years have either retired, are not in a position of power or are in the same boat she is in — underemployed or unemployed.

When she was telling me the story of her career, it was pretty obvious that she did nothing to cultivate or care for the network. Rather it was always there for her and she never paid attention to it. On the other hand, she is mentoring a lot of young professionals and her connection to them is strong; but they are not nearly as influential as the people who had mentored her over the years.

Her network has aged out and left her abandoned.

When Your Network Has Retired

I had a similar discussion with a gentleman who is now in his late 60s. He was forced into retirement and has since formed a consulting group with a few of his former colleagues. Throughout his career, opportunities just came to him through his network. He never really needed to find work and he did little to cultivate, or even grow, his network. He did not see the need to grow his network as it was feeding him and his family just fine.

That was until he hit his 60s and his network either retired, became unemployed, were downsized or just died. His contacts within his industry greatly diminished. It did not help that he was on the manufacturing side of the business, which had been shipped offshore for cost savings.

He now needs to reinvigorate his network, but this is not something he is comfortable doing. At the same time, he is not social media savvy.

His network had aged out and left him abandoned.

Strategically Examine Your Network

For those of us in the second half of life, our next job will come through a relationship. That relationship may be an existing one, a dormant one that you will reinvigorate (weak ties) or a new relationship.

You should carefully examine your existing relationships or network.

How many are of similar age? How many are much older? Will they still be around to assist you in 10 years?

Zero in on those who are connectors — those people who know lots of people and enjoy making connections.

If you were let go from your job today, who could you depend on to help you? Will those same people be in a position to help you in 10 to 15 years? If not, you need to replace them NOW!

You want to examine your network NOW to see how much of it will age out.

Is Your Industry Shifting?


How stable is the industry where you are currently working? If you are in a shrinking or dying industry, now is the time to make the shift.

I want you to look at your industry through two different lenses:

Automation, AI or robots will continue to break down and eliminate jobs. I recently had a client interview with a company that will be using deep learning to replace thousands of service personnel. The chatbot it was developing will be able to answer 95 percent of all customer service questions.

Creative destruction is accelerating. Think of the industries that have been affected by the creation of the iPhone 10 years ago. Just imagine what drones will be able to do in 10 years and the jobs and industries that will be eliminated.

Next Steps for You

Once you have examined your network and industry, you will want to create a plan to replace and/or augment your existing network.

Ask yourself: If you need to shift to a different industry, who do you need to develop relationships with? How are you going to garner street cred within that new industry? If you’re in a stable industry, who are the up and coming individuals you need to develop relationships with NOW – so your network will not age out?

If you are in your 50s and plan to work until 70 or beyond, you need to plan on your network to age out.

I am now into my 60s and many of the people I worked with at IBM in the 1980s and 1990s are no longer in the workforce. Many of the people who I worked with after the dot-com bust are still working, but are no longer in a position of power or influence.

My network has aged out.

Has your network aged out? What are you going to do about it?

Marc Miller Marc Miller’s career journey has included 22 years at IBM; several tech startups; a painful stint as a high school teacher; raising funds for the Jewish Community Association of Austin, Texas; training employees in 35 countries and a near fatal bicycle accident that changed his perspective forever. Miller now works as a career design expert for boomers and is the author of the new book, Repurpose Your Career: A Practical Guide for Baby Boomers. Read More
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