Why Would a 22-Year-Old Want to Be an ‘Old Lady?’

Hint: These 5 trailblazing women have a lot to do with it



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Two women in their 20s with tattooed arms stand against a vintage style wallpaper and smile.

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In our youth-oriented culture, it’s rare to find an example of someone who yearns to be older.

So it was refreshing to come across Kate Parkinson-Morgan’s essay for NPR, “I'm 22, and I Can't Wait to Be an Old Lady.”

“Older women are my heroes,” writes the Gimlet Media radio producer. “I'm envious of their knowledge — the beautiful, rich kind of knowing that only unfurls with time, patience and experience.”

While acknowledging the ageist, sexist stereotypes all around us, Parkinson-Morgan notes that we're doing a better job of celebrating women over 50 these days and she points to many inspiring examples.

“Today young women can look to a great many accomplished older women for guidance,” she says.

For examples, see the five trailblazers on the following slides.

1. Lily Tomlin

Actress Lily Tomlin standing against an orange background

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Occupation: Actor

Age: 77

Why she's inspiring: Portrays older women as multidimensional characters, as in the 2015 film Grandma

2. Nina Totenberg

NPR's Nina Totenberg wearing headphones and in front of a microphone

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Occupation: NPR legal affairs correspondent

Age: 72

Why she's inspiring: Explains the complex U.S. legal system in a thoughtful  and engaging way

3. Gloria Steinem

Gloria Steinem leaning against a tree

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Occupation: Feminist, writer and activist

Age: 82

Why she's inspiring: Paved the way for the feminist organizers of today

4. Ruth Bader Ginsburg

Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Supreme Court Justice, at Columbia Law School

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Occupation: Supreme Court Justice

Age: 83

Why she's inspiring: Has become an Internet famous feminist icon as the Notorious RBG

5. Iris Apfel

Fashion icon Iris Apfel seated, wearing famous black round glasses and many accessories

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Occupation: Fashion icon and designer

Age: 95

Why she's inspiring: Still setting style trends and being fabulous in her 90s




By Heidi Raschke
Heidi Raschke is a longtime journalist and editor who previously was the Executive Editor of Mpls-St. Paul Magazine and Living and Learning Editor at Next Avenue. Currently, she runs her own content strategy and development consultancy.@heidiraschke

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