Estelle Erasmus, author of Writing That Gets Noticed: Find Your Voice, Become a Better Storyteller, Get Published, is a professor of writing at New York University, hosts the Freelance Writing Direct podcast, and is a contributing editor for Writer's Digest. Find her at estelleserasmus.com; her Substack and @EstelleSErasmus on Instagram, X , BlueSky and TikTok. She is writing a memoir based on her years as the "Dating Diva" doling out advice and searching for love in the 90s and early aughts while working as an editor in the chaotic, often misogynistic magazine industry.